Rowan Arahia
 

 ABOUT

Meet Rowan

Psychotherapist & counsellor, yoga teacher, personal trainer, and Kai-mirimiri/intuitive bodyworker, mother of 3 daughters.

Provisional Member with New Zealand Association of Counsellors (NZAC), membership #13417, with 2024-2025 Annual Practicing Certificate.

Twenty-four years experience practicing mirimiri/bodywork, 11 years teaching yoga, 8 years working in mental health.

Masters of Indigenous Studies, Postgraduate Diploma Psychotherapy&Counselling, Postgraduate Certificate Developmental Psychiatry, BA Political Science.

Currently training in Internal Family Systems Psychotherapy.

Based in Thames, New Zealand & Online.

 
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Who am I?

My name is Rowan Arahia and I am a 38 year old parent of three children, two by birth and one whangai (my husband’s daughter, who’s mother passed away via suicide when she was 3.5 years and my first born was 6 weeks old). I am of Māori (Ngati Tamatera raua ko Maniapoto nga iwi) and of European ancestry and am a gender queer (she/they pronouns) and bisexual person.  I am a professionally trained and experienced psychotherapist and counsellor, yoga teacher, personal trainer, and kai-mirimiri (intuitive/indigenous healing).  I am passionate about ongoing education, self-work, and healing.  I hope to utilize, integrate, and learn from all my life experiences so that I can better serve my family, friends, communities, Papatuanuku (mother earth) and all the people I come across in my personal life and work. 

 
 
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What Influences Me?

 
 

My mother exposed me to alternative and holistic health from a young age and I also inherited healing abilities through my Māori lineage (and perhaps through my Welsh ancestry).   This exposure included yoga, chanting, immersion in nature, intense physical exercise, bodywork, psychotherapy, play therapy, dance and much more.  I became a bodyworker at 14 years, a group fitness instructor at 17 years, a personal trainer at 19 years.  I studied a Bachelor of Political Science and a Masters of Indigenous Studies with Credit (intersectional analysis of ethnicity, sexuality, gender, and class) with aspects of philosophy, economics, psychology, post-colonial theory, feminist/queer theory and much more, of which I graduated from at 24 years.   

I have volunteered throughout my life in areas of environmentalism, active transport and working with young people and animals in need.  I studied a post graduate diploma in psychotherapy and counselling and a postgraduate certificate in developmental psychiatry (child and adolescent mental health).   I trained in Bikram yoga, hatha yoga, yoga therapy and focusing (a somatic based therapy that is somewhere on the edge of somatic experiencing, psychotherapy, and meditation) and much more.  I have worked in community mental health, indigenous health, public health, and queer and trans (LGBTQ+) wellbeing.

My core therapeutic and theoretical influences are working from a lived experience, kaupapa Māori (indigenous theory), narrative therapy, person centred theory, non-violent communication, intentional peer support (working with lived experience), focusing, polyvagal theory, family therapy.   I believe it is essential when working with individuals and communities to acknowledge the powerful effects of internalised trauma (polyvagal theory) and external discrimination (systems theory) on the person.   This includes constant reflection on the influences of sexism, racism, homophobia, transphobia, classism, and ableism, among other oppressive forces, as well as reflecting on internalised trauma that comes from past experiences and inherited/intergenerational trauma. 

I am currently training to be a Internal Family Systems practitioner.

 
 
 
 

what do i offer?

I keep my 1:1 work sacred and offer only a limited number of therapeutic sessions online and in person in the form of individual, couples, and family work.  I also offer private yoga sessions and mirimiri (bodywork).  I love to work with children, adolescents and adults of varied backgrounds and diversities. My other offerings include speaking, courses, and group facilitation. 

 
 
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I aim to create a rich collection of resources and media in the form of videos, podcasts, books and articles, both to link people to the works that inspire and influence me but also to share my knowledge, learnings and self-reflection with those who may benefit from my sharing.  

The themes and focus of my offerings are constantly expanding and shifting in a way that aligns with my lived experience, authenticity and growth as a person and therapist, as I aspire to continue to learn, heal and grow.  This process also reflects the constant evolving and changing nature of humans, cultures and environments.  Currently I am focused on; work with diverse sexuality and gender (LGBTQ+); relationships and sexuality; black, indigenous and people of colour (BIPOC); and parenting support and blended families. 

 
 
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